Comforting your wife

Gentlemen, this is a great time right? Your wife is pregnant with child you’re getting ready for the big day, what could be better? Well…. You may be enjoying this great time, but your wife? That may be a different story. She is going through a lot right now; now don’t get me wrong I’m sure she is very excited. Though her body has gone through a lot of changes and she is probably not feeling so hot. To me I think my wife looks great. Why, because she is pregnant and I married a beautiful woman. She is tall and the nice round bump she has makes her look great. Those people out there who look at pregnant women and think that they are fat or ugly are no help, they need to be taken out back and set straight. This is the time to be positive and very supportive. Guys your wife is married to you. That’s right. Maybe for some odd reason she married you. That means she trusts you and looks to you for support. This is the time for you to be there helping anyway that you can. Do not argue or murmur, if she needs something get it for her. If she wants her feet rubbed grab some lotion and start rubbing. You can do the dishes, cook, clean, or even do the laundry. If for some odd reason you don’t know how to do any of those, then now is the time to learn. You need to make this as easy and relaxing as possible for her right now. She has sacrificed her body to be pregnant with your child and though your “BIG” part may be done, you still need to help out. My wife loves it when I rub her feet every night. With her still working she comes home with her feet hurting and swollen so I step up and rub her feet. Do something to help her feel relaxed. This will be a tremendous help for her and for you. Enjoy this time together and keep communicating.